Parents can tend to “pour on” criticism in the teen years, especially when their teenager responds with a scowl, a turned back or a shrugged shoulder.
Constant criticism may be one of the greatest failings of otherwise caring and concerned parents, since it can lead an already introspective adolescent to exasperation and lifelong self-consciousness.
While an overly criticized teen may act defensively or like they don’t care, they really do take it to heart. In fact, to them each criticism might feel like a slap in the face.
So take care how you criticize your teen. Avoid criticizing their tastes, desires, decisions or physical attributes. Stop the cycle of criticism, since it tends to be something that’s learned and passed on from generation to generation.
by Mark Gregston
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