In addition to basic parenting issues, the couple must somehow find a way to do what was probably a challenge in their relationship: communicate clearly and effectively with each other. Working together is essential to the success of a co-parenting arrangement. It may be hard to work through your communication issues, but everyone will benefit if you do.
Other aspects of co-parenting are the same as parenting in one household:
Be respectful of your ex spouse.
Resolve conflicts and discuss major issues privately, not in front of the children.
Don’t confide, complain or grumble about your ex to your kids – you need family, friends or a therapist for that role.
Don’t use your kids as messengers between you and the other parent.
Assure your kids that both parents will listen to feelings and address needs cooperatively.
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